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Post-it:
Very long post, but whatever!
Hmm, is it difficult to read such post length?
Would it be better if I were to write shorter?

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DarlingAd always complain about this particular issue whenever we go out for food.
For example, dining in KimGary.
I'll always order the Iced Yun Yong (mixture of coffee and milk tea)
And DarlingAd will go for the Iced Milk Tea because he's caffeine intolerant or the Fruit Milk.

When the orders arrived, the waiter will always serve the Fruit Milk to me;
And the Iced Yun Yong to him.
After which we'll switch them and DarlingAd will start saying,

"See! Why must he serve the Fruit Milk to you? Guy cannot drink healthy drinks meh?"

That's the same for food as well.
The waiter always serve the heavier portion to him,
Which most of the time belongs to me *lol*
And then he starts all over again.

So what is that?

I don't know if I should be feeling anything by all these small little actions?
At one part I appreciate that the waiter acknowledges the differences between feminine and masculine behavioural,
But at another point I felt stereotyped because,

What! Just because I'm a girl, I can't eat Black Pepper Beef Steak with Spaghetti???
So what if I choose to wallop 5 Roti Canai or 4 Dunkin Donuts?

Well, it's just difficult la.

If all these were to happen the other way round,
I'm sure I'll make a fuss over it too! *HAHA*

That's why men say women are complicated creatures, we are.
But you guys still love us, and hate the fact that you guys do.
*Jumps up and down and bounces away*

But seriously, it's difficult being female.

Dah-lah have to go through menstrual every month,
Suffers all those period cramps and PMS,
And then have to spend so much money on buying sanitary pads, bras and panties,
You think sanitary pads very cheap is it?

Guys, if you go to Watson or Guardian and look at the different types of sanitary pads,
I bet you'll faint and die.

Wings? No wings?
Day use; night use?
Slim fit; Heavy?
28cm; 35cm?

Oh yes, we measure our sanitary pads too!
Of course the longer, the thicker, even the better..
For night use ma..

*What were you thinking?*

You try sleeping at night with something cotton-ish at your northern region,
And with constant out-flow of fluid,
You think it's comfortable?

Those advertisements from Whisper and whatnot,
Showing how the girl can turn left and right while sleeping,
It's just puffs!
I'll be lucky if I don't get strained back when I wake up the next morning during the time of the month.

And then there's pantyliners.. OMG.
Lets not even get there.

Not only that,
Ladies have to spend so much on getting clothes, shoes, make-up, skin care products.
I know why guys cannot understand how girls can go shopping all the time and for the longest time ever.

It's just because you guys have just shirts and pants.
Ladies have top, blouse, skirt, pant, dress and etc,
NOT including the different types within these categories,
AND THEN there's the different designs and colors.

You got to match it right!

So that includes the different types of SHOES - designs & colors,
There's something we call the sitting-down-shoe, and the walking shoe, dinner shoe, casual shoe and dot dot dot ...
*Phew* I'll never finish counting..

And speaking of shoe ,
*squint watery eyes*

I just bought a pair of black shiny pointy heel from Vincci,
Which I love it the first time I saw it,
But they never have my size 9.

The next batch of stocks came in,
I left Vincci feeling disappointed again.
So when I saw it again the other day and they have size 9,
That means DIE DIE also must get!

But while walking out of FOS the other day,
The heel accidentally went into a crack,
And that stupid damn crack peeled off bits from my heels!!!

It was so obvious against the nice shiny black.
Geram-ness to the max!
So....
I painted that part with my black nail polish.
What a girl would do for her shoe.

But girls are willing to do more than that!

Really....

Try going to MNG 2 days later.
You will not see girls walking around looking for clothes,
Instead, you'll see hungry hyenas fighting over a tiny rat after 10 years of starvation.

Oh yes, that's what I witnessed when I was working during MNG sales.
These ladies actually start queueing at 6AM when the notice states that the shop will be open at 7AM.

Scary. I know.